Thursday, May 29, 2014

EMS

I want to expose evils I've noticed in many cases not just one. This is not late coverage of Elliot Rodger. This is an independent view of culture, society, and violence in general, using the case of Elliot Rodger to provide an example.

In the media we hear about women who kill. She's pure evil. It's what happens when we have abortion on demand and no fault divorce. Atheism and working mothers. (Unless she murders her autistic kid then obviously it's what happens with autism cause autistic people are so bad...)

If a black man kills many people its "thug culture", "gangs", "single parents", and many things that blame the black and even just minority and poverty stricken community as a whole.

If a perceived Muslim person (muslim, Arabic, sikh, etc) kills many people then it's terrorism, anti American sentiment, those people are inherently hateful and violent.

(I know Rodger isn't "fully white", but white enough to obviously resent his Asian side and harbor some racist feelings himself. But again aside from the point I just realize many people will comment "ha! He's not actually white!!"

Neither is that kkk guy that found out he was like 17% black or something like that.)

But when a perceived white man commits this kind of a crime the first cop outs are mental illness and possible asperger's syndrome.
Because you know we can't have those kinds associated with us.

The reality is, those of us with mental hath illnesses are far more likely to be victims the  perpetrators of violence.
Autism of any kind is not associated with violent behavior.
Aside from in the moment  bursts of action and emotion due to triggered stress or over stimulation.
There's no link between premeditated murder or terrorism and autism spectrum disorder (ASD).

No the only relevant mental health problem is Entitled Male Syndrome. Sometimes called Entitled White Male Syndrome.

This happens when someone is raised to believe that (usually) he deserves everything. And that women dress and have sex according to his desires in either fulfilling them or screwing him over. Women dress "revealingly" for male attention and "modestly" to discourage it (aka playing hard to get).
Women are sluts if they have sex with men who aren't you and bitches if they don't have sex with you.

If you spent money on a girl or got her intoxicated then she owes you sex and it's not rape when forced or coerced on a date or intoxicated woman.

That men should "have a say" in abortion and women's bodies but should not be obligated to do the minimum to help provide for the child they insist be born.

These mindsets are common in EMS and if you agreed with more than 2, regardless of race or gender you are affected. Non men can in fact be carriers which fuel nd make the disease stronger. By blaming rape victims, slut shaming (or its reverse "prude shaming" for a lack of  better term. Shaming a woman for not consenting to sex with someone who feels like they bought that right.), and anti reproductive rights activism (note this doesn't include those who don't want abortion for themselves or who choose to allow others to influence their decisions on birth control abortion or choosing whether or not to ever become parents. Only those that shame or attack the rights of others to make the decisions right for them. And it's not exclusive to abortion. The concept of limiting sterilization rights to young or child free people, denying free highly effective contraception especially for teens, restricting emergency contraception etc are all included)

There's no known cure for EMS but many are hopeful that prolonged exposure to feminism may counteract some of the harmful attitudes and views and may reverse some of the effects.

Persons affected with EMS are not all violent or even capable of rape or murder. But it can very well be a catalyst, and curing this disease to prevent the needless suffering is a priority.

No other mental health illness would affect someone in such a way.

But proper disclosure.  EMS is neither a neurological disorder nor a true mental illness. The brain does not look any different and doesn't work any different. It's purely a mindset disease. This is a purely social disease and speaking out and fighting against it is the only "cure", it is therefore everyone's obligation to defeat to defeat this social illness.

Next time you talk about a killer being mentally ill, think about what the gender and race of the killer isFor best results also record your findings when the words thug, gang, culture, divorce, and similar other key words appear.

Media coverage, and more disturbingly, societal attitudes tend to find a way to create ableist conversations that further alienate the mentally ill and neurologically different. More fear and hatred is created and more pro eugenics sentiment is expressed. In a seriousness this this is This is a disturbing trend I hope I can help out a stop to.

Monday, May 19, 2014

Regulation of emotions

I've noticed that my emotions often tend to be misinterpreted if not seen "too easily" to be considered polite.
Most of it includes things I don't really think about. My fave is naturally "frowning", and my natural stance is a hug like hold on myself seen as arms folded like I'm angry. People also say I'm "looking at them wrong" or like I'm glaring at them.
This is almost always unintentional and not because I'm feeling any certain way. Most of the time I'm just lost in my own thoughts or caught up remembering or focusing on music or something someone said.

I can usually not appear too offensive though if I really focus on keeping my arms looking relaxed (even though it's very uncomfortable and not relaxed to me) and looking at people's eyebrows while focusing on keeping my eyes opened uncomfortably wide. It also helps if I focus on keeping my mouth in a slight smile. I can do all of these but if I do its hard to focus on any conversation.

My second issue with communication is "tone policing", I have virtually no control over tone and cannot tell the difference between when I say something happily or angerly. I seriously can't short of screaming and even then the excitement/anger border eludes me.
I'm often told I've said something in a hateful or angry tone and half the time I'm like "well I'm mad so it's going to sound mad" and the other half I'm not mad until the confrontation so I have no idea why I'd come across as angry. But usually I'm chastised for "being angry" which does enrage me, for being untrue and being a BS reason to be in trouble. People get mad, get over it.

I've got body language so that I can more or less pull off being non offensive, but no clue on regulating tone. Maybe there's tips I've never even considered. But even body language alone exhausts me. plus it does seem like people want a reason to be angry at me anyway.